Curse of the Black Pearl
*** begins rant ***
So I've been back less than 2 weeks and I'm already fed up of some of the people I've had to deal with, i.e. hypersensitive, emotionally unstable people. Because some people just don't understand that while friends may be friends, there's no need for obsession. Yes, you don't carry your friend's photo around in your wallet, or say overly sentimental things (such as "I can't imagine living without you") or do things that make the other person uncomfortable, especially when the other person has indicated he would like a fair share of distance (in an manner that's so damn obvious).
And creating a scene in a restaurant by crying hysterically while I'm not there just to guilt my friends and turn them against me won't work either. Call me heartless, but I wasn't affected when I heard about that at all. I've seen it way too many times and frankly don't give a damn any longer. And I can't care to be lectured any more. I'm not a bad human being. Stop trying to disprove that.
*** ends rant ***
So I've been back less than 2 weeks and I'm already fed up of some of the people I've had to deal with, i.e. hypersensitive, emotionally unstable people. Because some people just don't understand that while friends may be friends, there's no need for obsession. Yes, you don't carry your friend's photo around in your wallet, or say overly sentimental things (such as "I can't imagine living without you") or do things that make the other person uncomfortable, especially when the other person has indicated he would like a fair share of distance (in an manner that's so damn obvious).
And creating a scene in a restaurant by crying hysterically while I'm not there just to guilt my friends and turn them against me won't work either. Call me heartless, but I wasn't affected when I heard about that at all. I've seen it way too many times and frankly don't give a damn any longer. And I can't care to be lectured any more. I'm not a bad human being. Stop trying to disprove that.
*** ends rant ***
posted by N.J. at 11:38 AM
3 Comments:
"I wasn't affected when I heard about that at all", which is why you wrote this...
No, I wrote about this later, when I heard that my poor friends had to have an uncomfortable dinner, had to spend 30 minutes consoling her and got accused of being like me (what a crime!).
When I was initially called and told about her emotional breakdown, my reaction was simply "meh, drama again, good thing I'm not around there".
I HAD to begin with this note! Hehe! Thank you for my first ever experience of something like this! I wonder how many people have actually wanted to write something like this for me...not many I hope!
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